How to skip anal fun and enjoy it too

Funny thing about having a not very popular sex blog page is that I can almost use it as a diary that is left in plain sight. On an off chance that someone is actually reading it, the level of intimate details might have them scratching their heads as to why would I chose to share that on a public blog. At the same time - if you are going to have a secret sex blog - why not share there what really truly matters and what ultimately floats your boat? 

Last night we had an amazing round of marital sex. I was horny all day, couldn't focus and kept thinking about my husbands cock in a variety of places inside my body. Sadly my ass needs to take a break so we had two other options and we decided to take a full advantage of them. Behold the powers of coconut oil and here I was sucking on it then riding it, back to sucking and getting tied and banged in spread eagle missionary, back to sucking with balls and the 69 deep throating, back to getting banged some more with my gag, leash and blindfolds on - aaaaaaaaaaaaaah I came so loud and intense I was glad to be gagged for the sake of our neighbors. Then I sucked some more and eventually got banged again doggy style and came again shortly before my dear husband did. 

The cool thing about coconut oil is that it acts like a perfect lubricant that also tastes good - by itself and mixed with my juices. So while I used to frown upon pussy to mouth action - no more of that! I loved the mix and the kink of it. Sucking cock with a blindfold on is also a huge turn on. Just thinking about it now makes me want to run home and practice what I preach some more. 

I guess there are ways around anal if you enjoy the other two holes as much as that one. And it turns out I do. Husband is a very, very lucky man. 

Why I love to deep throat

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Make Merry Love....

You can see our Xmas themed movie here. Ho, ho, ho!!!

Happy Holidays! Love, Rickat

Rickat documented

Rickat Documented: the inside scoop on our mini-doc for Bustle

Written by MLNPstar Kat of Rickat

When we originally heard about the interest to make a documentary about a NYC couple that is part of the MLNP community, we were truly honored by the nomination to participate. It raised a few questions for us in terms of keeping our identities private, whether we would be able to keep our masks on, etc. but once we had those details sorted out we were fully on board.

We met with Bustle crew the first time to talk about the project and bounce creative ideas off of each other. The authors had a rough concept of what and how they wanted to show everything and we filled in the blanks. Most importantly, we had a long discussion about #realworldsex vs porn and what it means in today’s internet infused reality to record your most intimate moments and post them online to share with others. We had good chemistry with the crew and felt really comfortable opening up about our take on the topic.

They returned a few weeks later on a day we were planning to shoot a new video, as capturing the preparatory process and method was of utmost interest to them. I put on my make-up, mask and the wig and we had an impromptu interview. Most importantly we showed our technical set up which was surprisingly unobtrusive and intimate. We have never talked to anyone about this before and certainly not on camera so it was quite interesting to share our secrets in such a manner. We had agreed ahead of time that we would not be shooting any of our typical stuff while the crew was there – since that might have been awkward and totally against our belief of capturing the #realworldsex which, after all, normally does not happen in front of a live audience. So as we were all set and ready to go at it, we said goodbye to our guests and went on to enjoy what we do quite well on our own.

The final time we met with the Bustle crew was during the creative process of editing the video. As I had some “post- production” ideas and was running into road block after road block, we talked about the challenges of making artistic decisions and final selections of what makes it into the video. At the moment the movie is still not completed due to personal reasons, but I hope to get back to it in the near future.

Overall it was a very pleasant experience. As a couple of exhibitionists at heart we really had no problem baring our souls with regards to the motivation and the process behind making movies for MLNP. The most surprising part for me was having three strangers watching me edit quite graphic scenes of myself and my husband on my computer and feeling absolutely no shame.
We hope that the final documentary normalizes, explains the motivation and gives all the best reasons for why anyone should consider joining our MLNP community of regular people who after all are like everyone else– if a bit more shameless than most.

Enjoy the documentary and don’t forget to drop us a line on our blog (rickatx.blogspot.com) if it inspires you in any way!


We Make Sex Videos for the Internet, and Here's Why

The link above will take you to the Bustle mini documentary about us and MLNP.
The accompanying article can be found here

Our own MLNP edition is here!

We are honored to be featured in this week's MLNP edition! Madam Curator's words are music to our ears as well and we just want to humbly thank you for making us feel like super stars!

Make Rickat Love Not Porn

By madamcurator, October 2, 2015

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Here at MLNP.tv, we know we’ll never be able to thank our MLNPstars enough for the integral role they play in helping us create a space online to celebrate non-performative, porn-cliche free #realworld sex in all its messy, awkward, awesome humanness.

By sharing intimate, uncensored moments of human connection and pleasure from their #realworldsex lives, they help motivate open and honest conversations about the difference between #pornworldsex and #realworldsex in both the virtual world and IRL.

This week’s edition, MakeRickatLoveNotPorn, showcases a #realworldcouple who exemplify the kind of change, creativity, and damn good #realworldsex that can result when online and offline worlds collide. Featured in a forthcoming mini documentary for Bustle, we’re so excited to see them tell the story of how they came to MLNP.tv.

First introduced to MLNP and its mission when they attended the NYC Porn Film Festival, Rickat had the unique experience of being able to hear Cindy speak about MLNP.tv’s mission, listen to myself and Assistant Curator Ariel Martinez talk about our curation process, and watch a variety of videos from our MLNPstars, including both intro videos and full-on #realworldsex videos. The reaction from the NYC PFF audience was better than we could have hoped for, with every single video we screened receiving a round of applause. We were elated and hoped that we’d inspired some future MLNPstars to get filming!

Enter Rickat.

Compelled by what they saw and heard, this creative married couplesprung into action, making more time to make love, while also filming their #realworldsex with multiple cameras to capture as much of the experience as possible. In a fever of inspiration, Kat taught herself how to edit video, and by the time she and Rick submitted their first #realworldsex masterpiece to MLNP.tv, they had experienced what she describes as a “sexplosion” in their marriage. As Rickat continued to film themselves, they wrote to us about how they were “creating a modern day Kama Sutra,” with Kat saying:

I don’t think I can ever watch porn again with the same mindless hunger for satisfaction. I want more out of it now. I want passion. I want beauty. I want love. And you know where it is? Right here on MLNP. I am really grateful for the chain of events that led us to the NYC Porn Film Festival and MLNP. We were inspired to inspire in return. And if that’s not art then I don’t know what is.

You can’t make up stuff this good.

As ever, we’re overjoyed to hear what a positive, often transformative, effect sharing their #realworldsex has had on our MLNPstars and we’re so grateful to Rickat for sharing these most intimate moments with our community!

Rickatilingus

Coming soon to MLNP.tv!
Compilation of our favorite cunnilingus action in one package. Enjoy!

Preview below:

See "Kat's Toys" (part 1)

"Kat's Toys" (part 1) can now be seen here. Enjoy!

And this is what our friends at MLNP had to say about that:

Musings about love making and recording it to share online

When we make love we follow the body language, cues from the partner that over time become like a secret language that enhances the level of communication to act of intimacy. This leads to some beautiful and flawless love making that when captured on film it becomes a work of art. The editing is really the fancy frame or a collage of this intense imagery. Music is the emotional subtitle that translates the secret language into one we can all understand. 

We are extremely intimate in our love making and we found that capturing it up-close evokes a lot of emotions and arouses almost instantaneously when we re-watch these later on. Being this close and sometimes very perso(a)nal can look cheesy or grotesque but we hope we keep the tight rope balance on this one. We like it, and we hope MLNP community does as well. 

This is the most exiting time in our sexual life by far. Neither of us has ever had this kind of sex before. We wonder how many people never get to experience this level of exhilaration and we hope that they are in minority. 

We are in a sense grateful for MLNP coming into our lives this year because now we will be able to document our sexual evolution and share it. There's so much freedom of expression in the bedroom, the needs are anticipated and fulfilled to satisfaction and going with the flow is the name of the game. And that's how we play when we record - we take a day off, we set the cameras, dress up for flair and then just make love. Sometimes we see something up close that makes us reach for the camera to record it - much like taking a snapshot of a memory one wants to preserve. But most of the time we make love and laugh and truly enjoy a break from a real world. What happens in our bed is a primal prayer and celebration of an ultimate communion where our spiritual energies combine and send a signal into the universe with a message of love and understanding. Sharing our movies in a sense magnifies and captures this signal and hopefully passes on some of the feeling immortalized in MP4. Can you feel it? 

"Kat's Toys" Part 1 - preview

And for what's coming soon...

"Kat's Toys" Part 1

July update

I have been extremely busy with real life and grown-up obligations lately and it makes me sad that I have neglected this blog for so long. As an update I will say that I am working on the new movie and it should be done by the end of this month. We are also cooking up a bit of a surprise and I don't know how long it will be before it's ready but I will bet my life on it that it won't be disappointing.

In a meantime I wanted to share this image with you because while what we do isn't exactly traditional poetry - to me it is. And the message is clearly the same. Don't you think?

See Full Moon Swoon

Full Moon Swoon in all its glory

See it here!

Full Moon Swoon - intro

And here is the sneak peak into the action (and behind the scenes hilarity...)

Full Moon Swoon - and if that's not art...

Full Moon Swoon is a sequel to Morning Glory – hence the same outfit and accessories. We wanted to have this whole day and night experience and feel.  It was shot at night with an industrial strength light and it was really hot. I mean HOT - literally. We learned a lot about lighting for videos. Needless to say we will be investing in some real and COOL soft box or two.

I want to spend a moment to talk about my new fascination with editing. It’s time consuming and at times confusing work – especially when you have more than one angle shot at the same time. The process of selecting the best stuff that should make it into the final movie is sometimes heartbreaking. In this particular case I have some scenes that had to be cut out completely because they didn’t “flow” with the rest of the movie, plus I was really trying to keep it under 1hr. I had 3.5 hours of material (each “scene” was shot with 2-3 cameras simultaneously) – some of which was clearly in between stuff not only the goodies. I took one of these “extra” scenes and threw it into the intro, because I found it hilarious and I hope you will too. While the final movie is all glorified and bootiful – we are regular people just trying to have fun with it. So sometimes funny things happen and we laugh our butts off. This one by far is my favorite “blooper” so far.

Since the lighting we used was incandescent and warm it gave all the scenes a bit of a golden glow. I decided to take it a step up and rendered all the clips into vibrant sepia but didn’t erase other colors – so you can still see the blues and greens whenever they appear. I have a lot of new ideas for the future – now that I have a decent handle on the programs I am using. That’s another thing – I never would have learned all of this if it wasn’t for the motivation to make the movies look and feel a certain way. I had these programs for years and never really had a reason to mess with video editing. And now that I opened that chapter – I learned something new and have another creative tool in my toolbox. With each new movie I feel like my wings are spreading wider and I can do more and better each time. And that’s a good feeling.

I also watch movies and shows now with a new appreciation for the editors, directors, camera men and all the work that goes into making it look good in the end. I look at colors, lighting and sequences with my mouth open at times, because I SEE now and I APPRECIATE much more. Always took it for granted. No more!

And needless to say I cannot stomach regular porn at this point. Period. I don’t think I can ever watch it again with the same mindless hunger for satisfaction. I want more out of it now. I want passion. I want beauty. I want love. And you know where it is? Right here on MLNP. I am really grateful for the chain of events that led us to the NYC Porn Festival and MLNP. We were inspired to inspire in return. And if that’s not art then I don’t know what is.

Final cut and cue in the music

I finished cutting Full Moon Swoon!!! It's a reason for celebration, really. It's not really done until I edit the sound and add music but the hardest and most time consuming part is DONE. At the moment it's 50 minutes of pure, hot, melted gold. In vibrant sepia. 

I think I will reward myself with chocolate. And sex. Lots and lots of sex. 

In a meantime I leave you with the link to the album that will be the backbone of the soundtrack. It's is a lovely compilation of string pieces and the cello we so wished for. Found by accident but clearly it was meant to be. Enjoy!

http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Lovira/Experiments

From the editing table...

 Just a quick update - the latest movie is going really well, I played a bit with the coloring but I still like the rich sepia best so that's staying. 

Finding the right music is hard - anyone has a suggestion for a cello piece that's available under creative commons license? That would be ideal...

Full Moon Swoon (Modern Kama Sutra vol.1)

I have it bad again. Editing a new movie trying out a new technique rendering it first in one program and editing in another and it's taking a lot of time and quite a bit of effort. I worked on it this long weekend so much that I couldn't function beyond the survival instinct like food and sleep. The rest of the time was spent editing. I didn't go outside, didn't spend much time with the kids (having a head cold came in handy, too) and by the time I cut the final sequence of the first half of the new movie I felt like Rocky reaching the top of the stairs. A winner!

It consumes me. I breathe it. I love it. During the editing process we make love every day. Which is why dear husband doesn't mind picking up slack in the chores/kid department. It means he will get to enjoy the byproduct of this obsession. Sexplosion indeed.

At the start of this project I was overwhelmed and didn't know where to begin. Having gone halfway in 2 days I am much more excited and optimistic. This will be about an hour long movie so I have to make sure it's near perfect. As my history professor in college once said "the term paper must be 5 pages of pure gold". This is how I feel about this one. Stay tuned!

Creating a Kama Sutra for the modern age...

What our friends at MLNP said about us in today's feature email:

"We squealed with glee when MLNPstars Rickat said that sharing their #realworldsex on MLNP.tv was like"creating a new Kama Sutra for the modern world using the tools of the new age," because, well, we couldn't agree more! If you haven't yet had the chance to become acquainted with this lovely couple, I implore you to check out this stunning video featuring some of the cleverest camera rigging we've seen yet - all the better for capturing the modern day Kama Sutra! Enjoy!"

Thank you!!!

Morning Glory (Preludes) - MLNP.tv write up

"Rickat tease and please each other in their light-filled kitchen…"

"Freshly minted MLNPstars Rickat are back with another stunningly cinematic video! Having a palpable passion for each other and a newfound love of film editing, the result of this duo capturing their #realworldsex is really striking. Starting off in the kitchen with some hot #backdoor action, #toytime and sultry lingerie, this video packs a punch throughout the whole 37 minutes. This video also features some delectable #downtown action and an extremely clever camera rig that gives us the unique privilege of watching them from right above their bed!"

We are so happy you liked it!

Morning Glory (Preludes) - click to see!

Quickie Day Off

coming soon...cumming soon...

Morning Glory (Preludes) completed!

During the editing the images from the just finished Morning Glory with the second title Preludes were following me everywhere mentally. I was having a hard time concentrating at work and relentlessly was putting in 2-3 hrs each night for at least a week working on the movie. The more I cut and pasted, cropped and rearranged the more I kept thinking about making love. I couldn't quite put my finger on it why it was consuming me to this extent. I felt totally preoccupied and drawn to the project like I have never been drawn to anything. Maybe this is how you feel when you discover your calling, whatever it may be. In any case I also realized that seeing myself and Rick from the outside - what we looked like making love - added another layer to our relationship. I discovered million and one gestures we commit all the time and don't even realize. Our limbs merge and we become one organism with double arms and legs (interesting how the Indian theme continues to come up with this movie). Kama Sutra for the modern world indeed!

It was refreshing to see. I feel proud of this one. Truly. 

The Lioness and the Scorpion

He taunts and she comes
He caresses her with his telson
Growing bigger than her
She melts into his embrace

He feeds her his honey and she sucks it down
Hungry, more, more
Giving, taking, devouring

He drives into her
But she's ready
Welcoming
It's not death that follows
But light
Forever crepuscular and alive
They dance

Glorious thoughts

I'm in the midst of editing our new movie "Morning Glory" and wanted to share a few thoughts on why we do what we do. 

We think of our lovemaking as art. We think it should look like a work of art. There so much ugly porn out there. Time to change what society at large finds exciting and masturbates to. Time to inspire people to have beautiful sex and really enjoy it. It's not about being perfect. It's about making love and showing it to yourself, your partner - and for some of us - to the world. 

I have this vision in my head of how the future will be and hope more and more people will jump on this bandwagon and make fantastic stuff. I'm also pretty anal (pun totally intended) when it comes to standards and visuals, which is why I do take time to edit and "cinematify". The way I see it - we are making visual poetry with our bodies, like contemporary dance etc. Hope it comes across.

#makelovenotporn

Morning glory....

From the work in progress...
Stay tuned!

We begin with Rickat's lavish debut at mlnp.tv...

Meet MLNPstars Rickat!

#realworldsex #mlnp.tv #makelovenotporn

Debut Review

When brand new MLNPstars decided to film their very first #realworldsex video for MLNP.tv, they ran into an unexpected surprise in the form of Kat’s period. Thankfully, that didn’t stop them from getting it on, because, why should it? With Kat decked out in lingerie, a mask and pearls, and Rick au natural save for his many tattoos, these creative marrieds make a stunningly cinematic debut. Navigating each other’s bodies with the ease and confidence that comes from years of sexploration, you can definitely see how hot these two are for each other! All of that on top of some impressive editing and a clever use of mirrors makes this a thrilling introduction that you don’t want to miss out on. I can’t wait to see what else these two come up with. Welcome, Rickat!